Posted by: lisamarieselow | April 15, 2008

Busy?

Lately, it seems many people I know are busy.  Of course, any term is relative.  I also venture to say that most people in modern society are busy.  But, I wonder at times if I am busy because of there truly being more to do or because of me making my life complicated?

For myself, I’ve noticed that modern conveniences and technology actually don’t save me time.  I spend an hour per day some days answering emails.  I remember going to college in the early 1990’s.  I rarely watched television.  I didn’t own a cellular phone.  I only used email to talk to professors and study partners.  Back in those days (gosh, I sound old), we didn’t text message.  The big technological breakthrough was the answering machine and a touch-tone phone.  In college, I managed to carry a full-time load of classes while being in a sorority, working 10-15 hours per week at a part-time job, and being involved in many clubs, organizations, etc. 

I attritube my success in those days to having excellent time management skills.  I wrote down everything in my day planner (nope, didn’t have an electronic organizer back then and I still don’t), including sleep!  I had to so I could fit everything each day.

During the past three months, I decided to break up with my television set.  I haven’t had cable television in 12 years or more, so this is not costing me anything.  I’ve discovered I don’t miss television–at all.  I use the television to watch a monthly DVD or two and that is about it.  Instead of watching television, I will meditate or read a good book.  I like books that help me to learn and grow.  It’s great to be expanding my mind again more diligently and consciously.

I have been looking at my daily habits now for a while, making changes where I see fit for me.  I realized there is plenty of time in a day, even if I am very busy.  There is time to workout.  There is time to meditate.  There is time to see clients.  There is time to read and study.  There is time to spend with loved ones.  Once I shifted my belief that “I am busy” to “I have time every day to do the things that are important to me,” my schedule shifted.  I have to work on things in my subconscious mind prior to them manifesting physically as change.  So, I work with my beliefs first.  Then, my behavior follows.

I’ve also observed others struggling with being busy.  When I used to do massage therapy for a living, I had some clients who were too busy to get a massage.  It’s hard sometimes to treat yourself to that hour per month of relaxation.  I know I’d rather watch television because it’s so much better than a massage!  Just kidding, but not really.  I know I sound judgmental, but really, I think it’s all about priorities.  What is a priority for me is probably not a priority for you.  It’s all good.  Diversity makes the world go ’round.

One of my priorities is loved ones.  I like to be there for people and to spend time enjoying life with others.  We’re all busy, but we take the time to get together and hang out.  It’s a blessing and well, a priority.

I think of being busy as a choice just like any other thing in life.  Everyone has work or a job.  Everyone has loved ones.  Everyone has errands to run.  Everyone has hobbies, interests, and self-care activities. 

There always is “free time” each day, I’ve noticed no matter how busy I am in my life.  I notice that sometimes there is only an hour.  I also know that I can do a lot in that hour.  I can meditate for 15-20 minutes after starting a load of laundry and after that, I can read for half hour and then, return phone calls.  That may sound like I’m multi-tasking, but really, I’m just honoring my priorities, along with my commitments.  Spiritual growth and my learning are important to me, so amongst that phone calls and laundry they do belong.  I’m still laughing at my friend who said it is not spiritual to multi-task because you’re not in the present moment.  If I’m in the present moment with each thing, doesn’t that count?  I’d say it does count.

Today, I’m considering whether I’m busy because there is so much to do or because I’m choosing to use delay tactics when it comes to my creative life or my life purpose.  If I fill my schedule up with appointments, housework, errands, and time robbers, when will my books get written?  When will I have time to talk to friends who matter on the phone?  When will I have time to read or relax? 

Yes, I’m thinking about all of this today for some reason.  I guess it’s because my spirit says, “Write!”  I am going to heed the call.  I am no longer too busy for this important work of mine.  A book wants to be born, so I’m going to open up to allowing it.  And, that is all I will share about it because I like to keep the creative fires stoked.  I’m sneaky that way :)

With blessings,

Lisa

 

Posted by: lisamarieselow | April 11, 2008

Who do you want to be?

I’m looking at this question right now:  “Who do I want to be?”  Since I tend towards be-in-the-present-moment, I’ll rephrase this question as:  “Who am I?”

In doing my personal growth work as of late, I’m answering other questions such as “What do you want to have?” and “What do you want to do?”  For some reason, these feel easier to answer for me than the question above.  Who am I?  Why am I here?  I suddenly feel transported back to college philosophy class!  That is too scary.

Okay, back to this time in my life.  I feel like I can never fully answer the question of who I am.  I’m always changing, so it would make sense that my answer(s) are always changing as well.  So, I think of what is unchanging about my character (or what I strive for most of the time).  I think of the idea of LOVE.  I want to be loving.  I am love.  I can’t really think of anything else with as much certainty as that.

I know it’s tempting (for me at least) to look at what you don’t want to have, do, or be.  Sometimes, this helps me to know what I do indeed want.  I work to not really focus on the negatives though or else my energy will be directed in those negative places.

I tend to attract a lot of clients with life purpose-related questions.  That makes sense because from a Law of Attraction stand-point, life purpose is very important to me.  I can sense some disappointment in others at times when I don’t specifically answer their question:  “What is my life purpose?”  The thing is that only you can determine what your purpose is and it is a process.  Processes involve refinements, changes, or whatever you wish to call them.

I understand how it feels to feel uncertain about life purpose.  I know it’s painful at times.  It can feel like you missed the boat.  It can feel like everyone else is at a party and you’re never invited.  I sometimes have felt like a lost boat at sea that will never see land, let alone arrive to shore.  It can feel that bad at times.  I know because I’ve been there.

I once read a book and the one line that popped out of me was, “What if your purpose was to enjoy life?”  (Apologies for not being able to remember this book title)  At first, this question sort of, well, really infuriated me.  There has to be more to life, I thought.  I also thought it was preachy.  I felt sudden twinges of guilt for having too much fun.  Of course, I smiled realizing those fun times where the best.  I felt most connected to my purpose, my Higher Self, and my passions.  I also felt the most connected to others and well, to the Divine.  Fun is not a bad word.

So, I’ll add that to my list.  Besides being love, I want to be fun, joyful, and exubriant!  I claim those right now for me:  I AM fun.  I AM joyful!  I AM exubriant!  I AM…I AM…I AM.

Fun is part of the spiritual path.  I can’t survive long in places that don’t have love or joy.  I can’t handle being around people for very long that are serious.  Of course, there is a time and place for fun.  There is a time and place for seriousness.  I try, really try to honor others for where they need to be–I’m just saying the serious stuff doesn’t work for me.

Recently, I was investigating some study programs.  I was drawn to this one course of study.  I wrote the people who head it up.  I’m glad I did so because I learned it wasn’t for me.  The one person said that the spiritual path is not always fun or easy.  Okay, that is true–we all have choices to make and lessons.  For me, it’s how you handle those lessons.  So, I didn’t look back.  I decided that course of study was not for me.  It’s okay though.  I know they are lovely people.  I’m lovely.  It just didn’t have resonance for me.  I had to honor that about myself.  I’m into humor and laughing.

There’s plenty of time for seriousness…I’m chosing to make life fun :)

Off to have fun!,

Lisa

Posted by: lisamarieselow | April 11, 2008

What’s next?

Do you ever feel overwhelmed with this question:  “What is next?”  It’s nice to live in a world that has so many options.  But, I am the type of person who has to sort through all of them.  It’s quite the process and requires a lot of reading, patience, focus, along with intuitively discerning what is appropriate.

I have to be constantly learning and immersing myself in things that contribute to my growth.  There is part of me that is shopping for new books to read, classes to take, or lectures to attend.  I enjoy these aspects of my life.  I do notice it causes me to look within and to see how these experiences and knowledge contribute to who I am.  I also look at the opportunity to be of service.  When I learn something new, I also am interested in how I can use it to help others or the planet.

I used to try to read all of my books and be caught up.  This is next to impossible.  I think you must relate.  I have a stack of 30 books I haven’t read yet that are fairly new.  I also have 20-25 books I haven’t read in my bookshelves.  There are magazines to read and CD’s to enjoy.  There is so much to do.

I’ve decided to enjoy all of this information.  However, I have learned that knowledge is nothing until I apply it to my own life.  Then, it becomes wisdom :)  I like that.

I notice clients will often ask me what is next in their lives.  I personally don’t do a lot of future-oriented readings because I believe the best way to know the future is to CREATE it!  I turn the question around and ask clients, “What do you want to create?”

Lately, I’ve had to turn that question around on myself.  I am looking at who I want to become.  I’m looking at who I used to be.  I’m looking at who I am now.  It’s quite the excavation.  I’ve only decided on a few things that I know for sure.  I’m trusting the rest or what’s next will be revealed in a step-by-step fashion.  All I know for sure is that I want to have fun.  I want to love as much as I can.  The rest is just details I know.

I still am going to do the homework of sifting through everything.  I’m looking at life coaching trainings.  I’m deciding on which yoga classes to take to expand my horizons.  I’m looking at classes I’m going to take for my personal and professional growth.  I also am looking at charity projects and ways to help the planet.  There is so much out there.  I’m so grateful for having options.

As a big picture person (I’m a Myer-Briggs INFJ), I like to know where I’m going.  I take at least two maps whenever I travel, for instance.  With life though, I know it’s revealed step-by-step.  I have found I have to take one step before the rest are revealed.  This is sometimes hard for me because well, I’m human.  I want to know where I’m going–at least generally speaking.

I want to see how good I can get at letting go or releasing attachments.  So far, I’m not so good at this.  Spiritually-minded people say all the time that letting go is important.  I say you have to do what works for you.  I know often that letting go creates miracles because you allow the Divine to step in and help.  For now, I’m working to enjoy being in what I call the Cosmic Waiting Room.  I don’t know when my manifestations will show up.  I do know in some shape or form they will.  I do know I will change no matter what.  Change is good. 

Time to go to sleep on this question, “What is next for me?”  Just because I do readings and am intuitive doesn’t mean I don’t experience similar questions as my clients.  I’m human too.  Let’s enjoy and embrace our humanity.

Lots of love,

Lisa

Posted by: lisamarieselow | April 9, 2008

One Size Fits All?

I haven’t written lately because I’ve been traveling a bit here and there.  There is so much to share, but I figured I’d start with something humorous first.

I’m currently decluttering and reducing my possessions quite a bit.  As I go through my closet for the third time in two years, I’m confronted with these skirts whose tags say “one size fits all.”  Some say “one size fits most.”  I try these on and have to tighten them as much as I can and often, they are still too big.

I started to laugh out loud the other day as I saw the message.  It’s not just about clothing fit.  I know they make clothing for my exact size.  I know I can bless others by passing along these once good finds.  For me, the message was about how I am not “most.”  I am my unique self.  (I resonated more with “all” since it goes along with the idea that we are all One.  Oneness means something different for everyone.)

I loved receiving this message.  I’ve thought about times in my life where I’ve tried to fit in with others.  I ended up feeling quite miserable.  In some of my shopping trevails, I’ve noticed that things don’t always fit (not just clothes, but ask my husband about finding racing bicycles to fit me!).  

My strategy as of late is to just be me.  That is all I can do at the end of the day.  I find that those who resonate with me will be drawn to me and vice versa.  It works better for me and others.  It feels better.  So, I’m going with it.

Ironically, the One Size Fits Most clothing doesn’t really suit me much anyway.  I noticed these are lovely, flowy skirts, but I’m more of a 1940-1950’s polka dress girl.  For  a long time, I thought I had to wear some Lightworker uniform in order to be taken seriously in my work as an intuitive.  I felt unnatural and not right.  Things didn’t fit on many levels for me.  It’s funny how at times our human minds can have ideas about how certain groups of people look, act, or dress.  I’ve often made assumptions about others too.  I’m human after all.

I’ve never wanted to live a life that fits most.  I am too unconventional for that.  I am okay with not fitting certain things.  I am okay with others not always resonating with me.  In short, I’m okay with me.

Time to let go of old constructs! (and maybe even buy some new clothing too)

Enjoy the ride,

Lisa 

Posted by: lisamarieselow | March 18, 2008

My Animal Friends

Often, my friendships have changed in different times in my life.  I am making new human friends.  Lately, I’ve noticed that I’m making new animal friends too.

I’ve always been an animal lover at heart.  I am not currently owned by any pets (we don’t own them, they own us!), so I suppose I have outdoor pets.  My hubby and I enjoy feeding the birds.  When I say “feeding the birds,” I’m also talking about the squirrels.  Everyone eats together and seems to get along pretty well.  It’s what people do in suburbia.  We don’t have much forrests in suburbia, so we have our backyards that are homes to much wildlife.

Sunday night, a big brown rabbit came by at dusk.  He was so cute and took some time to eat some sunflower seeds.  We also get a variety of birds, including cardinals.  I’ve also been seeing bluejays, chickadees, and other little birds.  I had to get out my Birds of Michigan field guide.  But, I also took out the book Animal-Speak by Ted Andrews.  This book talks about the symbolism of animals besides their biology.  It’s a true gem and brilliantly written.  I refer to it often to understand my animal friends’ messages for me.

My squirrel friends have always entertained me.  We get brown, grey, and black squirrels.  We have our own names for the squirrels.  Browns are called brownies.  Greys are grey-ies.  We call the black squirrels blackies (I had a childhood dog named Blackie who was so sweet so it honors him).  Occasionally, little red squirrels show up (I call them squeakies because of their squawking).

The past two weeks, however, I’ve had this same little brownie come to my doorwall.  I can tell by looking at his face and markings that it is my same friend.  He takes his front paws’ nails and knocks on the glass doorwall.  I was in the other room when this first happened.  I ran to the doorwall to see who was there and saw no one until of course, I looked down to see my friend.  He wanted food.  I gave him brazil nuts from Trader Joe’s recently and well, he enjoyed them quite a bit as did about 10 other squirrels (luckily, not all at once!).  My snacks are not that pricey.  I don’t know what has happened in our house.  We don’t plan on having kids, so maybe this is the Universe’s way of giving us children?  I know the Universe abhors a vacuum!  Ha ha ha–I like to apply the Universal laws whenever I can :)

My squirrel friend and I stay at a respectable distance from each other.  I open the doorwall and he knows not to be hand fed and he goes about 10 feet or more away.  I am a bit squirrely I guess myself.

As a result of these new animal friends, I tend to be on-line less often.  I also tend to do my work in the kitchen so I can watch my children.  I enjoy Nature very much.  I’m excited that Spring is almost here!  Thank goodness!  I know I have to tolerate some Spring Winter weather for a while though.  Yesterday, it was 31 F.  That is a bit cold for 2-3 days before Spring I think.  I long for the warm, sunny days when I can take walks, go running and biking outside, as well as do my writing and journaling in Nature.  Yep, I’m a Nature girl for sure.

Just some random thoughts about friendship, weather, and Nature…

Lots of love,

Lisa

Posted by: lisamarieselow | March 18, 2008

Changes in My Daily Life

The fun thing about my life is that I’m always learning new things.  I enjoy reading and taking classes of all kinds whether they are for personal or professional growth.  I also enjoy meeting new people.  I always learn something new when I talk to new people.  It’s awesome to be on this spiritual path.  As I constantly learn, I notice my daily life changes with new knowledge.

Lately, I feel as though I’m starting all over in many areas of my life.  Do you ever notice how you’ll be on one path for a long time, thinking, “This is it!  I have it figured out.”  Then, all of a sudden, something will come along that will challenge me to grow.  Or, I’ll see where things are not necessarily working for me.  I know it’s a wake up call to move forward into further growth. 

The first area of change is career-related.  For a while, I’ve been studying healing modalities and transitioned about 3 years ago into giving intuitive readings.  In the process, I’ve discovered I really want to be of service in a more hands-on way.  I would love to do something like teach yoga or meditation.  It would be great to assist others in making positive, lasting changes in their lives.  Plus, it would provide them with empowerment.  I’m all about empowerment.  I can give readings until the cows come home, but often, I’m left wondering if my work has had a lasting effect of any kind.  I know it’s not my process and it’s others’ lessons, but I still wonder.

I’m researching life coaching programs right now too.  I’m considering going back to school and getting certified in this area.  I know it will provide further tools not only for me to help others, but for me to grow.  That is the wonderful thing about my path is that I learn and grow so much in the process.

My free time has changed quite a bit as of late too.  I no longer watch television.  I decided to break up with the television so I can read instead.  My brain is happy because it is actually doing something productive!  I also have been immersing myself in positive books, learning programs, CD’s, and the like.  It feels great! 

I also took up guitar at the end of 2007.  Earlier this month, I decided it was time to take lessons so I can learn more.  I’m so excited to be learning guitar because I absolutely love music that is guitar-heavy!  I’m so stoked. 

My daily structure and routine has changed considerably in the past two months.  I used to spend a lot of time surfing the Internet researching future-oriented things such as classes and trips.  I decided to allocate one hour per week for these sorts of things.  It is all too easy to be consumed by information and well, the Internet is brimming with it.

I also used to spend much time writing emails.  I decided to not start my day by answering emails.  I used to get very sidetracked by starting my day on-line.  I see that I’m much more productive if I get on-line later in the day after business hours.  I am starting to treat my business more like a full-time job.  So, I also don’t answer the phone during business hours to talk about socially-oriented things…unless I have time to do that.

I’ve also noticed in general that things and people that no longer serve me are gently falling away more and more.  I have created a vision of where I’m heading that is very clear.  So, energy follows my intentions–that which supports my vision stays in my life or is drawn to me and that which doesn’t nuture or sustain me just can’t fit in at all.

I’ve also become a bit of a meditator.  I get up each day at 7 a.m. and meditate briefly.  It jump starts my day.  I’m looking to start doing yoga after this meditation time too.  My mind is used to the idea, so I know my body will follow once I just do it. 

Action is definitely the key in life.  I have so many ideas floating around in my head most of the time.  Meditation has helped me to get a handle on these.  My mind feels clearer and more focused.  I notice my days are more organized, productive, and flowing.  It feels great!

New people and things are coming into my life.  It is truly a joy.  I know the human tendency is to resist change.  I am more peaceful with change because it feels good.  Scientists such as quantum physicists talk about how change is all there is or that change is the only constant in life.  Change is normal and natural.  Change is good for the soul.

Posted by: lisamarieselow | March 3, 2008

Uncertainty…Updating…I’m Now Certain

Hi, 

I’m back to blogging here.  I wanted to take some time to figure things out.  Honestly, I was feeling really unsure.  I’m going to continue with blogging.  I’m going to make it more personal, however.  I figure the only thing in life that I’m an expert on is my own life, so expect my writings to be more personal from this day forward.

I have released my shyness about blogging–again.  It took me a long time to be able to first even start a blog.  Then, it took me some time to actually write frequently.  Next, I had to allow myself to be more honest in my writing.  Interestingly, this is when things became most challenging for me after I decided to be more honest.  I started to get all kinds of challenging comments in response to my blogging posts.

At first, I thought these challenging comments were a sign from the Divine that maybe I should not blog or that I needed to spend my time in different ways.  I decided to stop for a bit and to recollect.  It became clear to me that I enjoy having a blog and sharing about my life.

So, I’ve decided I’m no longer going to hide.  There are a lot of ideas and writings out there–aren’t all needed?  I believe so and that is why I’m continuing here.   

Lots of love,

Lisa

Hi,

I’m trying to decide if I want to continue blogging and if so, do I continue to do so here…

I’ll update once I figure it out.  So, if I am not around posting, it’s because I’m working on the decisions.

Thank you so much for reading,

Lisa

Posted by: lisamarieselow | February 26, 2008

The Phone Question and “Accuracy” of Intuitive Readings :)

I get what I call “the phone question” about once per week.  Potential clients write or call me asking how it is that I can do intuitive readings over the phone. 

As I mention in the Frequently Asked Questions section of my website, www.indigoangelbear.com, when I give a reading, I’m just tapping into energies.  Energy has no time or space restrictions, so it is not necessary for me to be physically present with you to give you a reading.

Sometimes, this explanation is not sufficient for potential clients.  Instead of trying to convince people of how it is entirely possible to do intuitive readings over the phone, instead, I will pose a list of questions or things to consider as food for thought as you examine this issue for yourself:

–Ever think of someone and they call you back shortly after?

–Do you ever pray for someone?  Do you ever do it at a distance?  Do you really need to be in the same room with them?

–Do you ever talk to loved ones (living ones :) ) over the phone?  Do you sense how they are doing despite not being able to see them physically?  Do you get impressions about what type of day they are having?

–Do you ever listen to radio shows in which psychics or intuitives give readings over the phone? [My note:  You don't have to be famous to be able to do readings this way! :)]

–Do you ever have a feeling of when someone you live with is coming home and they arrive briefly after those feelings?

–Do you need to be in the company of someone to really feel their loving energy?

All of the above questions relate to energy!  Think about them for a minute and then, think about how these relate to phone readings.

I understand if you’ve had negative experiences with phone readers in the past.  However, if you think about it, there are varying degrees of integrity in all professional fields, not just regarding the intuitive arts.  I’m sure there are other negative stereotypes when it comes to phone readings that come from psychic reading hotlines.  Again, there are hotlines that employ psychics or intuitives that are high integrity…and well, some that do not.

When I’m asked this question, I see it as an opportunity to be loving and maybe even educational.  Due to time constraints, I’m not able to give all potential clients a sample reading over the phone to show or “prove” that this can be done.  I don’t engage in any circus-y displays or dog and pony acts :)  I am not on display or here to prove anything really–other than LOVE.

Another related question that has come up from potential clients is whether my readings are accurate.  I answer this with the idea that it is not for me to judge the accuracy of readings.  I tell clients in my disclaimer and prior to readings to only take what resonates with them.  Life can change and you have free will.  And, honestly, I don’t know how psychics that proclaim to be accurate get their data.  Did they go to a major university and participate in a double-blind study–and after some computations, out came their accuracy number, along with standard deviation? :) 

Since energy follows intention, in giving readings (I’m just the messenger), I have an intention to only bring loving messages forth that are for your highest and best good.  I also only connect with your high level guides and angels.  I honestly do not know what will come forth for you in a reading until I start.  

If I were to market myself as “highly-accurate,” I’d feel as though I’m coming from Ego, which is not a loving place.  I’d be giving all glory to myself when it is the Divine that works through me.  The Divine is highly accurate.  When you’re tapped into your own divine guidance, insights that are loving are the accurate ones.  I think many people hire intuitives or psychics when they feel a block in receiving their own guidance.  Or, perhaps, they are not tuned into their intuition.  You see, intuition or guidance or “psychic ability” is not just a gift for a select few–it’s everyone’s gift.  It’s just another sense like hearing, seeing, smelling, touching, and tasting.  In fact, in the spiritual sense, you have all of your physical senses (clairaudience for example is just “clear-hearing).

So, you might be wondering why you’d hire an intuitive if you have your own intuition.  Sometimes, we need help on the road of life.  Since we’re human, we are not always tapped into the Divine or living according to our guidance.  It’s nice at times to get another opinion.  Also, confirmation is something our human side needs (or at times, our ego needs it).  It is not a sign of weakness to request help.  As a professional reader, I do not want my clients to rely on me, however.  Most of my clients receive readings 1-4 times per year.  Along the way, I work to teach and empower clients to discover their own guidance via simple tools and techniques.  That is why receiving a reading from me is more than me telling your fortune.  I prefer to provide value with this work and share methods from my own personal studies and spiritual path.  This information does not take up a lot of time in the reading.  My intention is to help empower others in a loving way via this work.

Some closing thoughts to make you smile:

I use the Cosmic Phone Line.

Yes, the Divine is very accurate!

You have your own intuitive skills which are as natural as breathing or using your other senses.  Nothing is more accurate than your own divine guidance system.

I don’t mind answering these types of questions, so feel free to contact me. 

Many blessings to you,

Lisa

Posted by: lisamarieselow | February 15, 2008

Did you enjoy Valentine’s Day?

Did you enjoy your Valentine’s Day?  I sure did.  I enjoyed a nice meal with my husband.  Earlier in the day, I appealed to my inner child and made us some homemade, gluten-free cupcakes.  I enjoyed the flowers and card that hubby gave me too.

Many people think of Valetine’s Day as a day for couples.  However, I see it as a day to celebrate love.  Many of my non-coupled friends treat themselves to meals out, massages, facials, chocolate, etc. on Valetine’s Day.  Loving yourself unconditionally is a great gift every day though.  You’re worth it!  Let yourself enjoy life…

I hope you enjoyed your day!

Much love,

Lisa

Posted by: lisamarieselow | February 14, 2008

Refining Life Purpose

“We get told to decide…just like…as if…I’m not gonna change my mind.” -lyrics from “Knowledge” by Operation Ivy

We do get “told to decide” about our life purpose throughout our entire lives.  As kids, we’re asked by the adults in our lives, “So, what do you want to be when you grow up?”  When we’re in high school, we get extra pressure to decide on a career path so that we’ll know what to study in college.  Then, in college, we are told to decide when it comes to our first job out of college.

Of course, it’s important to study hard, get good grades, and go to a top school.  Then, it’s important to find a job with a top company and work hard until you’re promoted over and over again.  Also, better save up money so you can retire and then, enjoy life.

Wait a second!  *Insert screeching brakes sound*

Who says it has to be this way?  It is great to change your mind when it comes to career or life purpose.  Life purpose is a process, not a destination.  I myself and others have had many career changes.  It’s all good.

I don’t care to do things the way others say you’re supposed to in society.  I myself do value education and hard work, but those are only two ways to accomplish goals and be successful.  Success is something that you define for yourself.  I prefer my own definition of success versus societal definitions.  Besides, to me, life purpose or career are about finding and following your joy.  If you’re happy doing your thing, then, the other good things will follow.  Also, if you are being loving to others, you’re following your purpose.  It’s that simple.

I have reinvented myself many times in my 36 years.  I’m currently working towards another refining of my life purpose.  I’m heading in the direction of life coaching as a career.  I’ll probably also study yoga to teach others about this wonderful system of self-healing and making the world a better place.  I also am a writer.  I’m planning on teaching, lecturing, writing, and working to manifest a radio show at some point.  I like to wear a lot of hats.  I can’t just wear one–I get too bored.  But, different strokes for different folks.  I love how everyone is different in their approach to life.  It’s awesome!

Enjoy the unfoldment of your life purpose,

Lisa

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